At Speakers Corner… and the Wisdom of When NOT to Speak
"At Speakers’ Corner… and the Wisdom of When NOT to Speak" It was a quiet morning in #Singapore. I was walking through a shaded stretch in the city - trees swaying gently above, glass towers reflecting the sky, and the familiar buzz of a city in motion. And then I saw...
When Group Wisdom Rises, So Does a Facilitator’s Smile
100% - “When Group Wisdom Rises, So Does a Facilitator’s Smile” !! There’s a unique kind of joy that only a facilitator knows. It’s not the applause. It’s not the feedback form. It’s that moment when the group begins to speak to itself… When participants pause,...
I found myself in a room full of energy, insight, and playful curiosity
“GAME ON. LEVEL UP.” And what a wrap to #FacilitationWeek2025 it was - with the IAF Singapore family! Yesterday, I found myself in a room full of energy, insight, and playful curiosity. The session ?? "Level Up Your Facilitation with Gamification Design"- a hands-on,...
5 lessons from the ‘River Nile’ every facilitator should take to heart
"What did the 6,650 km long River Nile teach me about Group Process Facilitation" During a recent visit, I paused beside this stone slab which was etched with stories of the River Nile - the longest river on Earth, flowing across many countries, cultures, and...
Zooming Out: Lessons from 100 Floors Above
"Zooming Out: Lessons from 100 Floors Above" The 100th floor. Singapore's stunning skyline stretched before me - glass towers, rivers, roads, rooftops - every detail sharp and visible. It struck me: When you’re this high up, you don’t just see buildings. You see...
When the Room Speaks, Wisdom Emerges
"When the Room Speaks, Wisdom Emerges" This picture captures one of my favourite moments - not of speaking, but of stepping back. Not of holding the mic, but of holding the space. Not of teaching, but of trusting the group. We were mid-way through a group process, and...
Facilitation Gave Me Wings
"Facilitation Gave Me Wings - And It Changed the Way I Walk Through the World now" Those wings behind me? They’re symbolic. Standing in front of this banner at the IAF Asia Conference, with wings playfully poised behind me… I smiled. Because somewhere deep down, I...
The Elephant on the Wall – and in the Room
“The Elephant on the Wall - and in the Room” I came across this beautiful wall art - a majestic elephant, crafted from corks, surrounded by rich green foliage. At first, I admired the creativity. Then I smiled. Because sometimes, the elephant is not in the room. It’s...
What Snooker Taught Me About Facilitation
"What Snooker Taught Me About Facilitation"?? It was a quiet evening. A dark room. Soft lights. The green baize glowing beneath two black lamps. I picked up the cue, chalked the tip, and leaned over the green baize to line up a shot. And as I stood there, cue ball in...